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I didn't read all the responses so sorry if this is repetitious but I am kind of surprised that the topic of pornography was not brought up in that article. I mean when I was a kid in the 80's we would steal porn mags and hide them in our tree forts in the woods and engage in all kinds of toxic masculinity but by today's standards that was normal. But I do wonder what the ubiquity of porn does to young boys, and girls for that matter. And after the dawn of the Internet there has been a sort of arms race of porn. As what was shocking 30 years ago is practically seen on television today. So porn represents a completely unrealistic narrative of what it's really like between loving couples. and so young boys understanding and expectations are even that much more distorted.
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On the topic of porn, ah yes... I came from the generation where you would find old mags in the woods... I do think that is part of it, but I also find it interesting, in a time when information has never been more accessible that there is still so much "unknown" to these young men. My big take-away is that I will remind my son frequently about the traits that are important, and start from an early age talking about emotions.
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1) Social media and the anxiety, loneliness, and depression it can foster (very high in teenage girls) 2) climate change 3) cars. Hormonally crazed boys are further down the list. |
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I've got 2 girls, but this book has greatly informed and improved my parenting philosophy. |
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Research says kids are doing less sex and are less sex obsessed than previous generations. Too much exposure to porn? Maybe. Otoh there is a lot of serious depression and anxiety issues w/ kids medicated. A kind of social numbness also from too much social exposure/media. |
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When a writer presents only the one side of her “research” that supports her premise, its a hit job pure and simple. And a hit job like this panders to a mind set looking for validation of some perhaps misconceived unfairness in the world that must be pointed out and criticized to call attention to the virtue of the caller. Other than that it was a cloudy piece of fiction paraded as fact. |
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https://nypost.com/2020/02/26/bikram...auction-block/
as long as we are talking about toxic men.... anyone want to buy a car? I think his choice of cars, says something. |
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I have to say, this is an enjoyable OT thread. I'm a 65 year old guy that never had kids (you can thank me now ;-) ) but has observed his friends over the years go thru the trials and tribulations. Congrats to all for your efforts and sacrifices. I totally enjoy meeting other people's kids, seeing where they are, where they're going (or not going), and seeing how issues are handled. It's not an exact science, with a lot of tweaking along the way.
I have a good friend whose adopted son is at his freshman year in college, and, well, it's not going well. He's a bit aimless, but a good kid, just aimless. I can relate because I was pretty aimless at that age myself. Anyways, I'm curious how my friends will guide him from here. Again, congrats on your efforts. |
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