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I'm so sorry for your loss, that is really tragic.
I have a daughter who on 2 occasions tried to kill herself, the last attempt was when she downed an entire bottle of blood pressure meds my wife takes, plus a bottle of antidepressants! She goes to school that morning and the teachers think she's acting odd so off to the nurse office where she sat on a sofa semi passed out, the nurse never called EMT to have her looked at. So we go to the school to pick her up to take her home and we realize something is really wrong...and we're not even nurses! so we take her to ER. By the time the doctor saw her it was about 12 hours since digestion of the pills, they pumped her stomach, and gave her something to countereact what she took, but the docs all said she took enough pills to kill 4 people and she was fine! the other time she tried to bleed herself out which we caught and took her to ER, but she didn't cut herself the correct way so she survived of course. The one thing we discovered after years of counseling for her is that sucide today has reached a fad status much like cutting which my daughter also did. And the really disgusting thing about this is that she could find books at the school library on cutting and sucide, satanism, and other bizarre books yet Christian related books are not allowed? I would think that reading about how to improve ones life would be better then reading about destroying ones life, but the public school systems don't seem to think so. So high school students have access to all sorts of destructive books at the school librarys across this nation and no one seems to care. My daughter is now 23 and hasn't tried sucide since that last one, but she fights the demons of that in her mind, but she knows when it gets bad she checks herself in at a mental health clinic. Some people, like my daughter, are so messed up I'm not sure if those books weren't there if it would have mattered or not, but I know that's how she got into cutting. The other bad thing in our society today is the use of smartphones by everyone these days, and there is a lot of cyberbullying going on, and when that happens everyone finds out about it, this is a terrible thing for some people to handle, so instead of facing disgrace amoung their peers they kill themselves instead. Another theory is that children stay up late at night playing video games, or games on their smartphones, or chatting to friends, etc,and because of that they are lacking sleep which plays havoc on ones mind. |
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This has been an insightful, heartfelt and very touching thread. A tremendous community we have here.
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very much agree.
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https://www.understood.org/en/learni...u-need-to-know In the how you can help section it says "There’s a lot you can do at home, too. Early on, encourage your child to participate in activities that involve sequencing." Their expert clearly doesn't understand the problem. This is like telling a blind person to try to read. It's never going to work, it's frustrating beyond belief, and it never ends. I can't speak for other conditions, but I'm sure it's much of the same. If you knew that your life was to be an endless sequence of people expecting you to do something you can't do, what would you do? how long would you put up with it? My one suggestion is don't try to solve their problems. They have probably spent thousands of hours trying to work out solutions or work-arounds, your five second solution just makes you look like an idiot. Be a resource to them, lend them your ability to do the things they can't when they need it.
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Froze...your experience made me think of one of the essay questions that my youngest son had to address when he recently applied to the honors college at Penn State. In addition to the question (see below), I have also included a link to the video clip that he had to watch, which references the TV show 13 Reasons Why. Apparently the show is about a young woman who takes her own life after being cyber and social bullied. The video clip was an eye opener for me.
It has been said that art imitates life, which implies that what we see depicted in entertainment is merely a reflection of what is happening in real life. Review this video clip and tell us if you believe it reflects experiences of teenagers in the world today. In your response, address the ethical issues presented in this clip and how you would address them. https://twitter.com/13ReasonsWhy/sta...50888173363201 |
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Thats pretty selfish friend.
You have no idea what others are going through. To want them to continue living a terrible life just so you can feel "better" about your "life" is not a good attitude. It says your life is terrible and you cannot face the fact that some prefer to end theirs than to live unhappily. It is not your right to even have an opinion about what others should do with their life. |
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Thanks for sharing, everyone. This has been a touching and insightful thread...glad we can all share more than just our cycling.
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I don't have too much to offer except my sympathy for all who have been touched by suicide and or depression.
And one other thing. Reading this: "If my theory about suicide is correct, if it's a long term rational decision about a problem that can't be solved, you're looking for long term frustration to the point of destructive behavior." reminded me a something that has stuck with me over many years. In article about suicide and the Golden Gate Bridge a guy who actually survived the jump said the following: “I instantly realized that everything in my life that I’d thought was unfixable was totally fixable—except for having just jumped.” |
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That guy that jumped off the bridge is surprisingly correct, most people kill themselves because they can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, yet if they had just stopped and waited the light was just around the corner and sometimes as soon as the very next hour or the next day. For my daughter her attempts were due to voices in her head telling her to kill herself and I know there are others like her. I also have known vets who killed themselves after years of mental anguish, that is indeed a long term frustration. I think for some vets it's different, they think they did something so horrible that there is no forgiveness, there is no rational or moral reason for what they did even though they were given orders to do so, whatever they did gnaws at them until one day they can't take it anymore and end it, but usually that takes years to manifest itself to a sucide. I had a good friend who was vet who raised 3 girls, they all graduated from college, when the last one graduated he took his 45 and killed himself; his wife even said she had a feeling that he was only alive to make sure the girls would be ok; in battle though he was strong physically and mentally, he was the only person I wanted by my side; he survived many battles without any long term physical harm but lost the battle of his mind, which like his wife I too knew he was in a long term battle, he had even gone VA counselors for help at his wife's and mine urging, and he did go for a few years but it didn't do any good. Damm it, I gone on to long about something probably not relevant to the post, sorry if I bored you all, maybe I just needed to vent. |
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