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i'm wrestling with some of the same stuff. thing is, what we obsess about is the symptom. that we obsess (or stress or seek perfection or drive ourselves) that is the real deep thing. letting go of old behaviors -- even once we realize that they are not healthy -- is so freakin' hard. i'm at the realization stage. but man, moving beyond that into the action stage, the changing behavior stage, that's tough. old patterns die hard. i wish you the best of luck figuring this out. ain't easy.
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