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Clip the second shoe in as quickly as possible and pedal hard. I have been married for 10 years (longer than some but less than many others) and I find that when folks are committed and work towards something, they are more successful. When people get married with an out, with a lack of full commitment, then quitting or self destruction is an viable option. Also, know that things will be hard sometimes, you will fall and it will hurt. Life is not always perfect and expecting it to be so will set you up for failure. Trust and commitment will overcome a lot, because love alone will not always be enough.
It is a wonderful institution for those willing to commit and commit fully. For those that aren't, they might as well not go through the trouble.
Enjoy and best of luck for a long married life.
Paul
Last edited by rugbysecondrow; 04-11-2011 at 12:18 PM.
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