dnovo
12-23-2003, 07:48 AM
Gary: Picking up on Richie's observation in the "My Two Cents" thread, perhaps some things need to be said now to facilitate moving ahead in a constructive fashion in 2004 and hopefully beyond:
I welcome the current structure of the Bike Fan Clubs and the possibilities they present, but your 'suggestion' that this forum be 'merged' into your groups is a bit disturbing and, I respectfully submit, a bit dismissive of the motives and efforts (and the simple kindness) of Ben Serotta and his company.
Several returning members have expressed some concerns regarding what they sense is a stilted or overly -constrained atmosphere of this ressurected group. Some have gone so far as to say, 'hey, I miss the trolling, it livened up the tone of the group.'
Ben put this group back together in a short time and at his own expense and 'gave' it to us. He has NEVER said nor suggested 'Serotta posts only' nor 'speak no ill of Serotta' as the price of continuing to support this group at his expense. All he asked was 'no more trolling and insults.'
Is that to much to ask? If some feel that the restriction on trolling and a bar on a battle of insults as part and parcel of this group makes the forum 'too dull', then there are many other places on the Net that will tickle your fancy without the need for us to return to where we were at the end of the old group.
To those who feel constrained to avoid non-Serotta posts or feel they are being pressured to only praise Serotta, I say that you may be viewing this forum in a false light. Go ahead and post away, I doubt if 'Big Ben' cares what you say as long as you don't insist on the 'right' to denigrate the other members of this group
But Gary, after Ben put this group back together with only one, benign restriction, for you to come on here and ask that this group be merged into yours to 'save' its future demeans Ben's efforts and ignores why we ended up here in the first place.
Tolerating the most outrageous trolling, and then creating a BASEMENT to memorialize the most offensive posts did nothing to help the situation, and simply poured gas on the flames when the trolls would boast of setting 'records' for being cosigned to the 'pit.' Have you taken steps to prevent this at your new groups, or do you even admit that it is a problem? If not, won't history repeat itself?
And as for the 'join or we will perish' theory, there are a lot of other forums out there, Tech Talk, CR, BOB-list. Are those also a 'threat?' Are you going to ask them to close too?
I am honestly puzzled by what you are seeking. I do not view our present (and apparently healthy) format to be as limited as some have suggested, and politely differ with you. Demanding that 350+ members suddenly abandon this group and join yours makes little sense to me.
I am not as troubled as you seem to be by our group maintaining a distinct identity with the mnimal restrictions on simple decorum we have been asked to follow by Ben. Saying, "okay, now that all 350+ of you are up and going strong, shut down and come with me and join under our Big Tent" because not doing so will be bad for you makes me a bit nervous.
Thank you, but I like this heslthy and congenial group, and don't see shutting it down or changing its format now, while we still are regaining our original membership and adding more as a benefit for us as a community as contrasted to your desire to help your own venture suddenly increase its membership but potentially dilute the distinct character of this 'family.'
Sorry, but that is the way I view your request to this group and how I feel it reflects on Ben's laudable efforts over the past few weeks.
Dave N.
I welcome the current structure of the Bike Fan Clubs and the possibilities they present, but your 'suggestion' that this forum be 'merged' into your groups is a bit disturbing and, I respectfully submit, a bit dismissive of the motives and efforts (and the simple kindness) of Ben Serotta and his company.
Several returning members have expressed some concerns regarding what they sense is a stilted or overly -constrained atmosphere of this ressurected group. Some have gone so far as to say, 'hey, I miss the trolling, it livened up the tone of the group.'
Ben put this group back together in a short time and at his own expense and 'gave' it to us. He has NEVER said nor suggested 'Serotta posts only' nor 'speak no ill of Serotta' as the price of continuing to support this group at his expense. All he asked was 'no more trolling and insults.'
Is that to much to ask? If some feel that the restriction on trolling and a bar on a battle of insults as part and parcel of this group makes the forum 'too dull', then there are many other places on the Net that will tickle your fancy without the need for us to return to where we were at the end of the old group.
To those who feel constrained to avoid non-Serotta posts or feel they are being pressured to only praise Serotta, I say that you may be viewing this forum in a false light. Go ahead and post away, I doubt if 'Big Ben' cares what you say as long as you don't insist on the 'right' to denigrate the other members of this group
But Gary, after Ben put this group back together with only one, benign restriction, for you to come on here and ask that this group be merged into yours to 'save' its future demeans Ben's efforts and ignores why we ended up here in the first place.
Tolerating the most outrageous trolling, and then creating a BASEMENT to memorialize the most offensive posts did nothing to help the situation, and simply poured gas on the flames when the trolls would boast of setting 'records' for being cosigned to the 'pit.' Have you taken steps to prevent this at your new groups, or do you even admit that it is a problem? If not, won't history repeat itself?
And as for the 'join or we will perish' theory, there are a lot of other forums out there, Tech Talk, CR, BOB-list. Are those also a 'threat?' Are you going to ask them to close too?
I am honestly puzzled by what you are seeking. I do not view our present (and apparently healthy) format to be as limited as some have suggested, and politely differ with you. Demanding that 350+ members suddenly abandon this group and join yours makes little sense to me.
I am not as troubled as you seem to be by our group maintaining a distinct identity with the mnimal restrictions on simple decorum we have been asked to follow by Ben. Saying, "okay, now that all 350+ of you are up and going strong, shut down and come with me and join under our Big Tent" because not doing so will be bad for you makes me a bit nervous.
Thank you, but I like this heslthy and congenial group, and don't see shutting it down or changing its format now, while we still are regaining our original membership and adding more as a benefit for us as a community as contrasted to your desire to help your own venture suddenly increase its membership but potentially dilute the distinct character of this 'family.'
Sorry, but that is the way I view your request to this group and how I feel it reflects on Ben's laudable efforts over the past few weeks.
Dave N.