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It's definitely not a 'kids these days' problem. I went to a small high school and there was two suicides in the 4 years I was there and that was in the 80's. It's definitely a disease but it can also be brought on by environmental factors like for example as some one mentioned harassment. Unfortunately the Internet is both a blessing and a curse as it can be an incredible tool to harass kids.
I really feel sorry for people who have to suffer depression. Not once in my life have I ever had it. In fact I remember thinking as a teenager why would anyone want to end it. I was always looking forward to what came next. |
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As an aside, I do think it is important to keep kids out of the house and engaged in physical activities. Although anecdotal from a scientific standpoint, my son, with all of his issues, was in the best head space of his life, while on swim team. He was never competitive, and as parents, we didn't care about that, but the level of physical intensity required for the workouts, made his brain function more normally. My greatest surprise, in returning to cycling at 40, was the better head space achieved by an energetic ride. Try some things, let them pick, and encourage participation over competition, but don't let them spend all of their free time tied tied to e-devices. Hiking, backpacking, and camping have all been well received and make for great family friendly adventures. Over the past 18 months, I have responded to my wifes encouragement to attend yoga sessions. Looking back, it has taught me some useful techniques for finding some inner peace when the seas around are churning. Interestingly, similar principles of mindful meditation and controlled breathing where introduced at the catholic (Jesuit) high school I attended. Despite the surroundings, the instruction was entirely secular. Sadly, today it would likely be seen as the unwelcome introduction of religion. |
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A few years ago I found solace in eastern philosophy and mediation as you have in yoga. Recent studies have shown it is effective with kids and anger management. I keep encouraging my son to check it out. The philosophy resonates with him but he hasn't picked up the meditation piece yet. I do think that some of these techniques - controlled breathing, meditation, yoga etc could be helpful for our children; would be nice to see them included in health and phys ed. curriculums. |
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Some of you may remember this when it happened. ESPN just published a long story about the young woman. Definite read and heartbreaking.
http://espn.go.com/espn/feature/stor...nly-part-story Last edited by verticaldoug; 05-08-2015 at 05:54 AM. |
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