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P.S. Wait, Hampsten's not a member? Okay, you guys get a pass, I'd consider giving you money also. |
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wasn't it hacked back then? Selling watches?
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Its a commendable sentiment, but this isn't like the guy is his brother or close friend and he's enabling the behavior by not holding him accountable.
He's a dude who tried to get some bike frames for a team on a deal, and probably had some parts he gave up that are long since gone. He doesn't owe it to this dude to become some part of his accountability matrix or really to get involved beyond "You don't have my stuff? And no means of realistically making me whole anytime soon? Alright, see ya." I'd love reading the story about how Billy makes amends at some point down the road, but that wish and a nickel won't buy you a cup of coffee in Brooklyn these days. A lot to be said, sucks as it does, for just taking your lumps, learning some lessons and moving on. |
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I have absolutely no clue what "accountability matrix" means or where those comments were coming from so I just ignored it. Try that next time |
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The screwed over guy without bikes may not be doing the addict any favors by hitting the bricks, but I'd argue he's probably doing himself a favor by not compounding a bad decision with continuing to have this mess in his life. I believe I got the initial context of your first statement, but I think you're placing entirely too much emotional investment from the OP to the builder. He's not his brother or close friend or family member. He isn't going to have a seat at the intervention. Or be his sponsor at meetings, or any of that kind of stuff. Absolutely those people need to hold him accountable. A random guy he did a bad business deal with that -- apparently -- the OP can walk away from and move on with life? No way. Last edited by FlashUNC; 09-20-2017 at 05:35 PM. Reason: Some deeper context |
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However, my point is that tip toeing around the issue because you have sympathy for his condition being a disease is the wrong reason to not pursue your claims. Addiction is not that kind of disease and holding their feet to the fire does not make you a bad person. In fact, the opposite is true as it can force the addict to think. I'm not claiming that you should pursue him for his benefit, I'm saying that it's not to his benefit to not pursue him.
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I guess this is getting really OT, but seems to me that the only thing that could be done is to get him in legal trouble. Does that really help an addict? Seems like he's trying to rehab himself, if that part of the story can be believed.
I had a painter that took money for work he didn't do. I still feel bad about his situation. Any time I paid him, he would go get really drunk. And he did enough to get me to the point where I could finish my project, so I forgive him. It is interesting how many unstable people get into framebuilding and do a few nice frames and then flake out. Or do a lot of nice frames and then flake out. This problem seems to have died down now that the buzz is gone. One thing that causes it is that there is a disconnect between how much money it looks like you will make vs. how much you really make. |
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ANAO, if you get into his shop, see if you can grab my track frame. Says "Pink Rhino" on it, I think. I know it has FTW on it, as it was a collaboration with Frank the Welder.
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